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These are the top 30 most stressful life situations

First dates, work presentations and making phone calls to strangers are among the top 30 most stressful situations in life, according to research.

A study of 2,000 UK adults found deadlines for work, bumping into an ex-partner and forgetting something important are other things which cause unnecessary distress.

But running late to something like an appointment or a meeting proved to be more traumatic than having a job interview.

Almost three quarters will avoid stressful situations (72 per cent), while half will deliberately put them off if they are already feeling anxious.

It emerged stress manifests itself in many ways, with more than half of adults becoming more irritable and 54 per cent feeling depressed.

Lacking sleep (45 per cent) and struggling to concentrate (36 per cent) are other side effects of stress, while two thirds admit their skin suffers, either by developing problem skin or dryness.

Lorraine Perretta, head of nutrition at skincare supplement brand Advanced Nutrition Programme, which commissioned the research, said: “Stress can be nerve wracking, exhausting, and motivating all at the same time.

“We have seen a rapid rise of ‘micro-stressors’ in the recent years and one thing is very clear – these have an impact on us both externally and internally.

“Stress can affect our health by triggering stomach issues and insomnia, but also causing skin problems, such as dryness and hyperpigmentation.”

The study found other things likely to stress out Brits include worries about upsetting a friend, a disagreement with a partner or family problems.

Money and health top the list as the causes of worry, while others feel tense when there are tight deadlines coming up, they have to see people after lockdown, or accidentally liking someone’s old photo on social media.

But almost half of those surveyed by OnePoll said their stress is caused by lots of little things rather than one big thing.

According to the research, common strategies to combat stress include reading a book, gardening, talking to friends or family about it or spending time with a pet.

Other techniques include saying no to things, mindfulness, and even sex.

Although, only one quarter admitted to eating healthier food to tackle intense periods, as two in five are more likely to eat fast food instead.

But when the worry does kick in, 31 per cent of those who suffer from skin issues as a result believe they look more tired.

While 21 per cent get dark circles around the eyes and 15 per cent experience hyperpigmentation – uneven skin tone and dark spots.

Three quarters will then go on to feel even worse due to their irritated skin, although one in four will stop taking care of it during these periods.

And 28 per cent of women would try to cover up any problem skin with make-up when it occurs.

In addition to immediate effects on our wellbeing and mood, long-term stress generally impairs overall health, linked to weakened immunity, poor hormonal control and accelerated ageing.


1.            Health problems

2.            Financial problems

3.            Family problems

4.            Running late

5.            Job interview

6.            Forgetting something important you had to do

7.            Not being able to get to sleep

8.            A disagreement with a partner

9.            Traffic

10.          Worrying you have upset a friend

11.          Tight deadlines

12.          Having to give a presentation (or virtual) at work

13.          Waking up late

14.          Forgetting what to say when doing a presentation

15.          Saying the wrong thing to a friend

16.          Driving on unknown roads

17.          Clothes not fitting

18.          Other people turning up late

19.          Making a phone call to a stranger

20.          Not knowing what to buy someone as a gift

21.          Problems with your skin

22.          Attending a meeting

23.          What to wear to an event

24.          Getting a stain on your clothes

25.          Bumping into an ex-partner

26.          Having accidentally double-booked social events

27.          Dating

28.          Seeing people post lockdown/socialising post lockdown

29.          Accidentally ‘liking’ an old photo on someone’s social media

30.          What to wear as you have come out of lockdown /choosing post lockdown outfit